You make more friends and lose some. It’s the circle of reality. Changes take place in your personality, environment, thought process each minute. Maybe the people you used to like are not the ones you want to keep from now on. And it’s difficult letting go of people who are close to you, specially your best friends. All the memories and promises keep pulling you back. And you must try harder to go away form them. It hurts to let go of best friends.
But the truth is if a thought enters your consciousness, it is stored there forever. So, if you feel that you don’t like someone from then onwards, it will be impossible to. These people have touched your lives in innumerable ways and innumerable times. They are a part of who you are today. They have helped you grow into your wiser and more mature self. Picked you up when you had no strength. Believed in you when no one else did. But this has to be accepted that you’ve done for each other all that could be done. No longer will you both benefit each other in any way. There will be endless changes and in order to make room for them, you need to lose a bit of your past.
No matter how much you miss the moments you spent together, they are gone and won’t come back. Nevertheless, life goes on and you’ll live through this pain. It may seem very upsetting for the time being but it will pass. From an year after you let go of people, it won’t affect you as much as when you were letting go. Invest more time in improving the bonds which are still strong. The people concerned with your future should be subjected to your time and emotions instead of the lost ones. It is something you will not regret.