And suddenly the texts stop. You both don’t talk. I know this is heartbreaking enough and on top of all that you don’t know the reason. You were thinking how smooth everything was going. Where did it go wrong? Did you do anything to hurt them? Why weren’t you aware that anything like this was going to happen?
But did you think if knowing it all would have made any difference? You look for closure which is hard to come by at the time when you want it. It eventually does reach you a bit too late. And in that period of time, you’ll be drowning in pain and suffering in vain. You’ll find out that all the crying, difficult days of dealing with routine, hiding your sorrows behind your face which it reveals all too eagerly was not worth it. And trust me when I say this, it won’t bother you for long.
One day, few months later, you’ll realize that you don’t even think about them anymore. They will be a part of your past that you’ll look upon as a lesson learned. Closure does not help. Because even though it will answer much sought after ‘why’, it would not bring back the person or the bond you used to share.
Let people who don’t care about you go. And if they give you a reason like they are leaving you be for the best of you because they care about you and love you. Then that’s better. It isn’t your fault. Do not text them again and again even if you’re dying to talk to them because they would not reply. Do not try to keep in touch, they are trying to avoid you, and that they’ll do at any cost. Get rid of them. After all, as they all say, you don’t need that kind of negativity in your life.