Transition is something that is not experienced alone. You can change but don’t think that only you’d be affected by it. All the people around are touched by it, your family, friends and people you work with. Changes are repelling more often than not. Because you are so used to the routine and people around you are so used to what you were.
Do you miss the people you’ve lost? Do you feel bad about letting go of people you had to leave behind? Not everyone stays in all walks of your life. You are accustomed to the fact that people who love you most would never leave you. But that’s not true at all. Sometimes they do leave. I don’t think it is for the better of you or whatever. But it most definitely makes way for you to welcome change. Some of them would not like your changes and thus, won’t want to be a part of your life. New people who have been through same situations as one you’re going through will enter your life.
Changes are necessary. You cannot live your whole life in just one way. To become wiser and gain more experiences in life, change is just what you need. It opens a lot of doors, lot of new opportunities, responsibilities, successes and what not. Changes that make you feel comfortable to be yourself. As all people are changing constantly, everything transforms into something different. It is like a domino effect where there are more one pegs after the one that’s falling.
It is okay to be scared of new transitions occurring to you and in the surroundings. But resisting is not going to help. Sooner or later, you’d have to accept the consequences and it’s better to be acquainted with them already than being hit in the face with bigger effects. So try to go through it one step at a time and it will be great.